Your hair, it's everywhere, screaming infidelities

Posted on June 3, 2007 at 12:33 AM in 'Ruminations' with tags 'dashboard_confessional, emo'

Long ago Jenn gave me a copy of the Dashboard Confessional album, "The Places You Have Come To Fear The Most," and I've slowly gotten into it — putting it on once every few months and each time realizing, "Hey, that's right, I like this. I should listen to it more often." Of course, it's terribly, ridiculously emo — a whiny voice complaining about how sad he is that his girlfriend broke up with him. "As for now, I'm gonna hear the saddest songs, and sit around and wonder how you're making out. But as for me, I wish that I was anywhere, with anyone, making out." Oh gawd.

But that's OK. I've got lots of experience liking lame music (New Kids On The Block? Remember?), so I'm totally OK with the fact that I like them. But today I suddenly realized that I actually identify with some of this stuff. When he sings about the girl he likes who doesn't know he's alive, I caught myself thinking, "Yeah, man, I totally know how you feel." And that's embarrassing. It's a good thing I'm already out of high school, or I might have to fight the temptation to put some of these lyrics on my senior page.

Comments

Posted by Jenn 38 minutes later

Haha. Oh god! I still think his lyrics have great flow and style, even if the subjects are... emo. But Dashboard has gotten progressively worse as they've gone away from the sad-boy-on-acoustic-guitar schtick.

Posted by Dan 1 week, 3 days later

It's a 'they'? What do the other band members do? Or did he bring in more people for later albums or something? It seems like it would be very uninteresting to be the bassist for Dashboard on the 'The Places You Have Come... ' album :) Kind of like it must be pretty boring to be the drummer for Radiohead on Kid A.

Posted by mich! 1 day, 21 hours later

I thuroughly enjoyed your senior page. :-P HEY! when u coming to PR, man?!?!?! we need 2 chiiiillll! tee-hee

Posted by Marie 1 week later

Yeah....I'm embarrassed to admit I like that Stolen song. That's by them, isn't it? I hope to outgrow being embarrassed by things that I like just because they mean I'm not as hip as I think I am by the time I'm 30. I also hope to learn how to write clear sentences by then. :)

Posted by Dan 3 days, 5 hours later

That's not a song I'm familiar with, but I've only heard the one album I mentioned in my post, so it very well might be.

And yeah, I'm sure you and I both will outgrow that feeling by the age of 30. After all, at the age of 30, we won't be hip anymore anyway, and we'll be well aware of it, so no lame song can make us feel any less hip :)